I had the Andersen on our 26BH Grey Wolf, it was a fine hitch, I never had an actual problem with it. It does a good job at sway control. But I will say that it did not seem to transfer weight to the front axle as well as I was thinking or hoping it would, but for me it wasn't that big of deal because the 26BH has a pretty light tongue weight at only around 700 loaded.
We traded the Grey Wolf in on a Passport 3220BH (35.5', 7500 lbs, roughly 1000lbs TW loaded) and the dealer included the Reese Dual Cam hitch with 1200 lb bars. Once I got the hitch setup correctly it is a great setup! IMO for weight distribution it is far superior to the Andersen. I can't comment about the Equalizer since I have not had that hitch.
When I bought the Andersen it was only like $320, so it as great for the price point. But now I see it is up to $500, IMO for that price there are hitches that do a much better job at WD. I thought someone posted that RVwholesalers had the Equalizer for around $460.
TT-2013 Passport 3220BH
TV-2004 F150 FX4, not exactly stock...
with 2001 Kodiak K215: 2010-10, 2011-12
with 2012 Grey Wolf 26BH: 2012-19, 2013-24, 2014-11, 2015-6
with 2013 Passport: 2015-13, 2016-15 booked