First of all, thank you all for your contributions. Helps me tremendously, and I will be rejigging the setup for the next trip.
To answer some questions, I don't recall the hitch brand (I write this from work - tsk tsk - and the TT and hitch are in storage). Again the dealer set me up. I will be heading back there in the next couple weeks and will have them adjust it.
I derived at 10,000# based on my recent CAT scale info (was done in kilograms vs pounds so I have to convert) and includes not just contents of trailer, but contents of TV, and DW and me. I know I am under all the inputs from my TV and TT stickers. My sheets are at home, so I don't have the exact #'s at hand right now.
2014 Rockwood 8310SS Diamond
2014 F-150 Super Cab Ecoboost w/Max Tow
Nights Glamped - 2015 - 24
Nights Glamped - 2016 - 4