Just an FYI, I called Reese and apparently the $1300 hitch I bought was not hi end enough to get any bushings or inserts. Needed to spend $3-5000 more for the top of the line to get a quiet riding hitch when not hooked up. And no, they are not working on a solution or options except, you guessed it, bungee cords. Macgyver season 5, epidode 3, Chewing gum, red life saver, puppy chew toy and a early years Farah Faucette poster should do the trick as long as I have a a bag of onions and map of Detroit.
Shaking my head in wonder...Mike