I have found a water meter at Home Depot for $9.98 it fits on the hose.
I use this to flash and parcel fill the black tank. With a definite gallon # I can get a good flush. So far 15 gal of spraying makes a good flush. If I have time I do this twice. This is my tank you will have to check how big your tank is. A clear tube extension from camping world makes sure you are clean.