Been seeing this thread since it began but haven't subscribed until now. Very sorry for your misfortune; hopefully it will be behind you soon & you can get on with that which you enjoy.
Now, as for all the posts. This is great; one of the best threads I have read since joining FRF 1 year ago. There has been sincerity, care & compassion, anger & of course the vast amount of personal opinions (which every one of us have). It's been fun, educational & just down right enjoyable. To those who seem to get easily offended (sometimes even myself sad to say) just take it all with a grain of salt, enjoy each others opinions, learn a little if you can, don't be so doggone closed minded & have a good time.
Happy camping to all & be safe.