UPDATE!!!! Issue resolved
This was eating me alive so I just couldn't wait any longer. After further inspection I noticed the passenger side "L" bracket was one hole lower than the drivers side.....
(my fault) Raised it to match the drivers side went on a test run. It was noticeably better but still a tad bit of sway in 18-20mph wind gusts. Made another adjustment mid trip by raising BOTH "L" brackets another notch and bingo sway is gone.
Did another set of measurements and found after my last adjustment the rear of the truck is sitting 3/4 of an inch lower then when it's empty and steer axle stayed the same as when empty. Thanks again for all of the replies and hope someone can learn from my mistake....LOL