Having a pyramid plug in your black tank can be a real problem, especially if your RV toilet’s plumbing doesn’t drop straight down into the black water holding tank. I had problems in my RV that required I build a simple tool following the directions in the video below. It worked well for me.
The only deviation required for my RV is the length of PEX tubing. A 5-foot length wasn’t enough to reach the bottom of my black water tank. I used a 10-foot piece of PEX.
Take a look in your RV's toilet and see if your tank is straight below your toilet or if you have an elbow leading towards the black water tank. I think my RV has 2 elbows. If you see the elbow, a simple wand won't reach the tank so you'll need something like the tool made in the video to solve your problem.