Unfortunately, what you are experiencing is perfectly normal when it comes to the reading on all your RV tanks. The sensors inside the take can stay wet for extended periods of times giving faulting readings. Use your take monitor system as a guide only, when viewing any reading on any tank, take it with a"grain of salt" and don't worry about it!
PS- if you got 10 gal of gray water out after "draining" your gray tank, you either shut the dump valve too soon OR you were sitting at a different angle during your second dumping that allow more water to exit the tank. IMHO, after owning 12 different RV's and camping for 30 years, your way too worried about this situation.