After dumping I always add about 2 gallons of H2O and the blue stuff. I will empty it again at home to get rid of the any thing the trip may have agitated lose, add 2 more gallons and more blue stuff.
Make sure all users know to flush plenty with solids and if you are at a full hookup site open the valves once enough liquid has built up to carry as much effluents as possible.
For now to get back ahead of the curve:
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