Like your wife, I like air blowing on me at night. I solved this by doing the same thing I do at home, even though we have a ceiling fan in our bedroom at home. Don't ask, it's just how we are.
WalMart sells a tiny 4" diameter table top fan...all metal. I simply place one of those on the narrow bedside table in the RV. I just have to remember to *unplug* it before retracting the bedroom slider, as the electrical outlet is on the stationary wall.
When we added a memory foam topper to the bed this fan was below face level while sitting on that table, so I took a small piece of 2X4, sanded it nicely and stained it.
Now it's at the perfect level.
Oh, I also put a piece of that "woven foam" looking shelf liner to the top of that block to decrease vibration noise.
If age is a state of mind, and I've lost my mind, I'm AGELESS, right?
Give me 40 acres and I'll turn this rig around:
Flagstaff 5er 2014 8528 IKWS
, Platinum Package, Regency Interior "Buffy"
F250 Super Duty 2013
Tuxedo Black "Biff"
Days camped 2014