Drive more at night & you will learn to stop seeing the glare. While this works for most people, there is a small minority that will never adjust. They even see flicker on all but the very best computer monitors. You might be one of those. There is a lot of glare from lights that we no longer notice especially from the lighting in stores. We adjust to the glare & filter it out, however it is still there.
Other solutions, don't drive at night or let the DW drive.
2013 Rockwood Mini Lite 2109S
2010 Toyota Tundra 4WD