18,000 lbs is the rated towing with the HD transmission. We just put a 10k hitch on it. At some point the tongue weight is what will get you.
As for cost, just chassis alone is about $20k more (from E450 to Ram 5500 with the diesel) and of course everything else goes up a percentage as well.
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