I added a door to the bench dinette in our previous hybrid and wanted it to match the existing stain. I took a drawer to HD like caper suggested but they didn't have an exact match. I bought a small can of the closest color they had and experimented with some stains I had left over at home from other projects to custom mix a color that was a perfect match. I tried it on small areas on the bottom stile of the door where it wouldn't be seen until I was happy, or should I say DW was happy
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