Thanks a lot guys, I will do my best to help out to the best of my ability ..
.Terier if you come this way; in order of awesome:
1: Doran Beach fun beach camping, especially in winter! Killer sand, in a bay so pretty mild conditions most of the time.
2: Casini Ranch early to late spring is great, lots of premium water front sites available that you need to be the president to get to during summer :-) right on the best part of the Russian river before it gets to the coast, and the ocean is 7 minutes away.
3: (Napa County 40 minute drive from Santa Rosa) Lupine Shores at Lake Beryessa... The place just reopened after a major financial situation at the lake and I'm pretty sure no one knows it's still there.... Awesome secluded waterfront camping free for all!
Ok I'm done ranting. Thanks for the input.