I too had the same problem to start but was able to fix the problem. I use a OXYGENICS shower head with hose and a shut off valve that attachés to the base of the shower wand. First off, instruct everyone that is in the camper, not to run the water at all in the kitchen or lavatory, flush toilet
while anyone is using the shower. Next, once you get the temp regulated by adjusting the hot and cold knobs, you can regulate the water flow by the accessory shut off valve on the Oxygenics shower wand. When you get wet, DO NOT COMPLETELY SHUT OFF THE WATER AT THE ACCESSORY CONTROL VALVE , simply turn the water down to a dribble with the control valve. This will keep a constant flow of hot and cold water mixed to you comfort mixed properly.
If you slide down on the page of the OXYGENICS shower head, you will see the valve that you will need also. PART # 89171 by DANCO
Oxygenics 130-XLF25 BodySpa SkinCare Handheld Shower, Chrome - Amazon.com
This is my solution
Good LUCK