I would also ask FR. Here's a pic of the control panel that came with our trailer. Its located about 6 feet high on the cupboard to the left when entering the trailer.
Its a little blurry, but on top it has the idiot monitors for battery, FW, gray and black tanks, slideout 1, slideout 2 (not used), and awning.
The bottom row has interior light switch (which controls the light over the sink), porch light, tank heater (not used), water heater and water pump.
My kids are 8,7, and 5 so I can relate.
DW, 3 Kids and our Goldens
2012 Shamrock 233S
2008 Toyota Sequoia 5.7L 4WD