I assume it is one of your middle Rams that you lost a part on? Let's assume it is on the left side. Go to you level up panel and push the up or down arrow until 'manual' is on the screen. Then press 'enter'. You are now in the manual mode. Now push the left button. The left Rams will start to extend and get them to where you need. To get them to retract, push the 'retract' button and then push the 'left' button and they will begin to retract. If you want them to go down again, press the 'retract' button again. Whenever the retract LED is lit the Rams will retract, otherwise they will extend.
Not sure if this help but it is how you manually control your Rams. You can't control the middle or rear Rams but you can control one side at a time...
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