I get it!
I love my wife and hate (kind of) the idea that I am not the Master and Commander of my life anymore. I am in my mid fifties and got married 4 plus wonderful years ago for the first time.
I am not upset by this. I just thought I might find a similar tale out there, that would let me think that someone had the same experience.
You all have said some valuable things that I recognize. I will and still grumble, only online though.
If you see a middle aged man in the CG with his head hung low, think of me, I love the woman no matter what.
Having said that, I am pretty sure, as suggested in a prior post, a big fire will deform that pan. Just thinking, not acting on it, might take some months before I can pull it off.