Where is your 110volt power coming from? Shore power? Generator?
I have heard of something like this happening when plugged into an external inverter generator (like a Honda 2200 or similar).
I would unplug the laptop first (I don't think that the laptop specifically is the problem, but it's a good ideal to isolate things when you are troubleshooting).
Will the GFCI reset without the laptop plugged in?
Disconnect shore power - will it reset now? If so, what happens when you plug back in? Does it trip immediately? If not, does it trip when you plug the laptop back in?
If you are running from a generator, that inn itself might be causing the problem. When you are on shore power, the neutral and grould lines are connected together (bonded) at the power source's breaker panel. The GFCI is kind of expecting that. But they are not bonded together on a generator.
There is an accessory that you can buy, called a bonding plug, that solves this problem. It just plugs into one of the 110v 15 amp outlets on the generator, and ties together the ground and neutral.
Here are some examples:
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=bonding+p..._ts-doa-p_1_11
I'm not positive this is your problem, but it's worth checking out.