I wish I had that problem. With two adults the 52-gallon black tank lasts about five nights (with just a very limited number of trips so far) while the 52-gallon grey tank fills up in a couple of days.
I'm putting my digital water flow gauge on the city water inlet at the beginning of the next trip so I can see what is using how much And who is using how much.
I timed the stock FR shower head and it takes 2:30 to fill a 2-gallon bucket off the water pump so that's probably not it.
Ray