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Originally Posted by MiataHoarder
I’ve had golf cart tires flattened. Sprinkler heads removed and driveway flooded. Propane hose pulled off. All this in a secure access RV Park. From the day we moved into the park model, this neighbor’s hostility was insurmountable. This included physical threats and swearing. Totally understand how some individuals just aren’t able to relate to others. I think the word is psychopath. So, after getting permission from park management, I installed a video surveillance system. Jerk neighbor immediately contacted management and requested photos of areas monitored by the cameras. My response was if he can’t see the camera, it won’t see him and he could forget about photos. Fortunately, there were no more incidents after the cameras were installed. We managed to avoid getting a Restraining Order, even though, we had witness affidavits regarding the outrageous behaviors.
You may never know what inspired your neighbor to spend the money for his system. Might be that someone hammered rebar through his air conditioner at some other park. Also, RV park WiFi isn’t as reliable as individually subscribed service. Your neighbor is probably paying lots of money for a reason. Do you think it’s because there isn’t anything better to watch on TV? Picture yourself reacting to a theft or property damage. What would you do?
If a friendly chat isn’t possible, the window film will insure your feeling of security just as your neighbor’s system insures his.
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As you, we had hostility from our neighbors from the day we bought our lot. We made the mistake of buying a lot from a family surrounded by all of their relatives. We took it with a grain of salt for many years until they tried to start taking advantage and parking items on our property. We got a survey and took them to task. They had to move a fence, an outbuilding and a roadway. We removed another one for them. In turn, their relatives on the opposite side block off our access to the road. These two brothers are nephews to the actual easement owner and nephews of the person that we dislodged from our property. Six police reports (including an aggravated assault and vandalism) and a law suit/counter law suit, we now have control of our property and have actually gained property that we were told were easements. There is volumes deleted here for brevity. We could write a book.
After all of this, we were talking with the one relative we do get along with and we were told that other members of his family "hate our guts" and get extremely hostile to him when he tries to defend our actions. In their perspective, we don't belong on land from their relative's farm. So be it, we just smile when we hear their threats. But, one of these people has a volatile personality and I do consider him a threat for extreme violence. Some people just have an attitude that won't accept reality. They still keep trying to irritate and we still keep documenting. Maybe they will understand what an injunction is.
So for us, we will keep the cameras up. We have them on our own property and they keep "our neighbors" on notice. We have no problems getting along with our other neighbors, here and on our other property.