You will get plenty of advice here from NEVER leave the black tank valve closed to anything in between.
The mfgr says to never leave it closed and that is due to liability if the user gets distracted and allows the black tank to back up into the RV..ughhh.
If you can’t be disciplined then always leave it open. Here is what I do. I drain the black tank then close the drain valve while running water into the flush. When I close the valve I set a 5 minute timer on my watch or phone to remind me in case I got distracted. If you can’t be disciplined don’t leave the valve closed.
Drain and flush the black tank first. When done with the black tank drain the grey tanks. The grey water will flush and rinse the black tank crude out of the slinky.
The flush attachment does not flush the grey tanks, just the black.
Also, never leave the black tank drain open when connected to sewer while camping. You want lots of water in the tank so as not to get, as some like to call it, a poop pyramid and it sticks to the bottom and is hard to get flushed out.
If you don’t have one of these get one…can keep you from being surprised when you remove the cap if you have a leaking tank valve. Also allows you to share volume if you have 2 grey tanks…
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