First of all, when I got home, I tried the button holding trick and sure enough, I was able to get the fridge to go to propane only. I am excited as I did not know I had that option. You need to have the refrigerator on with the green light showing. Hold the button and the light will go out. Continue to hold the button and after 20 seconds the orange light will come on. To reverse do the same with the orange light showing.
On to the original problem. One other issue I had when new was the gap on the igniter. Make sure you have a big enough gap or even though it sounds like it's firing, it is not making enough spark to ignite the propane. I used a butter knife to open it up, and it hasn't failed to fire in 4 years. You use what you have when you're standing in the middle of nowhere with no tools.