As others have mentioned, the break-away cable is an emergency application of your trailer brakes. It's not a manual brake.
For normal trailer braking, a brake controller in the tow vehicle sets the amount of braking in your trailer's brakes. Some more recent tow vehicles come already equipped with a brake controller as part of their trailer towing package. Until recently, most did not so you had to add a brake controller to your vehicle. Power gets to the trailer brakes, lights, and battery charging through the 7-pin connection between the tow vehicle and trailer.
Generally, you adjust the brake controller to get the right amount of braking force from the trailer. I like to adjust mine so that I can barely feel the trailer brakes - it's braking at the same rate (actually just a little more) as the tow vehicle.
Fred W